I haven't forgotten how to do this, I have simply been procrastinating. For a long time I have realized that I am a major procrastinator. When I have a project I'll think about it for a while and if I think there is any risk involved I tend to put it off. I have a great fear of failure. I fear what people will think of me. I started blogging because it was time to face my fears and for a while I did pretty good. But then I found out that people are actually reading what I'm writing and fear raises it's ugly head again. So I procrastinate. If I don't write anything I don't have to be afraid that someone won't like what I wrote. I know, if you aren't a procrastinator you don't understand.
When I did children's musicals for various churches Larry has ministered to--I loved putting the music together, painting the sets, but I usually left it until it HAD to be done. Then I could do whatever the project was because I always had the excuse that I didn't have time to do it really well. So if people didn't like it, it didn't reflect on me, it was because I didn't have time to do a really good job. I know, as I write that sentence it doesn't even make sense, but at the time fear was controlling me--definitely NOT logic.
Now I am realizing procrastination has to be eliminated. It's definitely NOT a way to honor God. These are things I'm doing to bring Him glory and I am not to be worrying what people will think. What God thinks is the real question. I want to honor Him in all that I do. To do that I can't put the task off until the last minute and fake my way through it. That's something I've had to confess to Him, repent of it, and know that I can't do that any more with a clear conscience.
It's a tough habit to give up. And that's just it, I've done it so long it has become a habit. But it's a habit that needs to be broken once and for all. I have been avoiding cleaning up my desk. I've sorted through a lot of clutter and been working on other areas, but I keep looking at my desk and groaning. If I avoid sitting here, then I can put off cleaning it up. But if I avoid sitting here I can't get my blog written, my photos sorted, my photo book on Snapfish completed. So, no more! Lord willing, after music practice tomorrow morning--which is scheduled for 10 AM, I will come home and clean up my desk. I am now accountable to everyone that reads my blog. My blog, which I will write in at least once a week, will let you know how well I'm doing at keeping my word. (Man the pressure is on now!)
Randy, I love you. I am cheering for you. You clean your desk. I will clean my homeschooling bookcase. Even when you don't get it all done and together, I will still love you just as you are. That is not going to change. Even more, God will always love you. Go to it, My Friend. Oh, I also have my mending basket, and the garage. First things first. :0)
ReplyDeleteHave a very wonderful and productive day.